男人真心愛你的10個表現
1 Consider his future thoughts. He starts thinking about the future and you’re in it—his future once meant he had a date on Saturday night, but with you, the future seems definite. Not only does he plan to see you this weekend, but he wants to see you a year from now. Also, when planning his next vacation, he finds himself making plans with you in them, and when his best friend gets married in six months, you’re his date.
你在他的未來裏。當他計劃未來的時候，你總在其中，哪怕是週六晚上的約會，和你在一起是肯定的。他不僅會週末看你，他更希望一年後的這個週末還看到你。
2 Note whether he's making room for you. Other priorities take a back seat—He use to work out religiously, but lately, when your free for dinner, he doesn’t mind missing his workout. Not only that, but his workaholic tendency of bringing home work on weekends to get ahead seems a bit excessive to him now, and his “to do” list is not as important as it once was to him.
他願意爲你推掉不必要的應酬。與你相比，有些不必要的應酬，他會爽快地拒絕。同時，他也不願意將工作帶回家週末完成，因爲對他來說這個太佔時間了。
3 See if he is softening when it comes to you. He doesn’t mind compromising today—there was a time when it was his way or the highway, but with you it’s suddenly different. He mind missing “a night out with the guys” anymore, and he doesn’t even mind going to see that French movie in sub-titles. He even takes some good natured taunts from his friends, when secretly they wish they were in his shoes.
在你面前他總是很溫柔。他不介意在你面前妥協，縱然他也有自己的處事原則，但是在你這裏，他不會顧及那麼多。
4 Note if his spare time is mostly time spent with you. He loves spending time with you—this one is pretty obvious but important nonetheless. He looks forward to seeing you, and it doesn’t matter what the two of you do as long as he gets to spend time with you, in fact, those long walks you like so well are okay with him too. He now finds that when he is not with you, he is thinking about you constantly.
大多空閒的時間，他都願意和你呆在一起。他喜歡和你在一起，非常明顯。他渴望能看到你，不論你們在一起做什麼事，只要能在一起，他就覺得很快樂。
5 Watch his field of attention. He doesn’t notice other women as much. Although he can’t help but notice a beautiful woman when one walks by, but now that he’s so in love with you, many of them slip by, and to him, in his mind, they don’t even compare with you. Better yet is the fact that he doesn’t flirt as much as he used to. He is coming to realize that you’re the only woman that really matters to him and your feelings matter to him too.
在他心中，你是最美的。雖然他還是會偶爾瞟一眼路邊的美女，但是在他心中你是最美的，她們根本無法與你匹及。他也不像以前那樣和你調情了，因爲他知道你是他一生中最重要的女人，你的感覺很重要。
6 Note the sparks. You have great chemistry—you can’t be in love with someone you don’t have chemistry with. He seems to always be on the same wavelength, and you both have similar thoughts, which is a great sign.
注意你的興趣。你不可能愛一個和你興趣不同的人，他會盡量發展你的愛好，讓你們有共同的愛好。
7 Be aware of your faults in his eyes. He finds your quirks charming—the fact that you snort when you start laughing hard, or how when you eat, your food can not be touching each other on the plate fills him with inexplicable feelings of happiness. You say things that make you different from the others and this is one of the things that make you so attractive to him. In fact, he’s finding out more and more that he likes you just the way you are.
包容你的缺點。他甚至發現你的怪癖都是那樣的迷人——大笑時突然的鼻鼾聲，你吃飯的樣子，一切的一切都讓他感到幸福。
8 Consider how curious he has become about you. He realizes he’s falling in love with you because he wants to find out everything about you. He wants to know where you come from, who your parents are (a biggie), what you think about and why, and what makes you laugh. He truly cares about your feelings, and if you’ve had a bad day or your upset about something, he wants to cheer you up, not because he has to, but because he genuinely wants you to be happy.
他希望知道你的每一件事。對他來說，你就是一塊最美的美玉，他如此好奇，希望能揭開其中所有的奧祕。
9 Divine if his thoughts keep coming back to you. He can’t stop thinking about you—he is consumed by thoughts of you. You just happen to pop in his head for no reason, he even wonders if you think of him as much. He wonders what your doing, and he considers calling you but doesn’t, (he doesn’t want to look too eager). He thinks about you so much now that even when he’s out with his friends and he spots something in a shop window he thinks you would like when a couple of weeks ago he wouldn’t have given a second glance. You are the last thing he thinks about when he goes to bed at night. He’s got it bad for you, and that’s good.
總是想着你。你總是不經意地出現在他的腦海中，沒有原因，他甚至會想，你是不是也正在想着他。
10 Consider whether talk about the ex has ceased. He’s completely forgotten about his ex wife or girlfriend. All he thinks about is you now and that’s exactly what you want.
他很少或者完全不記得他的前任了，因爲他現在想着的只有你。
