10種方式表明他真的愛你大綱

It's cliche for a reason … men aren't always best at showing how they feel, even when they're crazy about you. But here are 10 ways to know for sure:

人們總是認爲，即使男人爲你癡狂，他們也不善於說出自己的感受。但要是他有下面這10種行爲，那就能確定他真的愛你了。

1. He opens up.

1. 吐露心聲。

Emotional intimacy isn't easy for anyone, so if he's baring his soul to you, it's not because he likes hearing himself talk … alright, not just because he likes hearing himself talk.

不是每個人都能做到情感親密。如果他向你敞開心扉，這不僅僅是因爲他喜歡聽自己講話而已哦。

2. He does the dirty work.

2. 承擔家務。

Taking out the garbage and scrubbing the bathroom floor may not seem romantic, but it can be his way of showing you he cares: by helping you out and trying to make your life easier. He's not ironing your work pants because he likes to; he's doing it because he wants to make you happy.

清理垃圾或擦洗浴室地板，這些事情看起來也許不那麼浪漫，但幫助你減輕負擔，是他關心你的方式。他爲你熨西裝褲，不是因爲喜歡做這些事，他是想讓你快樂。

3. He asks for your help.

3. 尋求幫助。

Whether he wants your input on a blowout with his boss or asks you to tag along and help him pick out a birthday present for his mom, he's asking for your opinion because he respects you and cares what you think, a sure sign he's smitten.

不論是邀請你參加與他老闆的應酬，或是幫他挑選給媽媽的生日禮物，都是在徵求你的意見，因爲他尊重你、在意你的想法。他肯定很愛你哦。

4. He loves PDA.

4. 公開秀恩愛。

Alright, sometimes you can do without his groping in the cereal aisle at the supermarket, but take it as a compliment that he can't keep his hands off you. He's proud to call you his and to show you off, and sometimes there's no better way to show his appreciation than to give you a little squeeze!

沒有他，你也能在超市的麥片區找到自己想要的食品。但他好像永遠離不開你似的，把這當做是種讚美吧。因爲他很驕傲你是他的愛人，想要到處向人炫耀。有時候，抱緊你是他表達愛的最好方式。

5. He chooses the perfect gift.

5. 用心挑選禮物。

Don't worry if his gifts are duds but if he consistently hits it out of the park with his present shopping skills, take it as a compliment: he's not only a good listener, he's also thoughtful … and willing to spend hours searching for exactly the right thing.

如果他已經儘自己最大的購物能力挑選了一件完美禮物，但卻不如你所願，不要太多慮，高興地接受吧。他不僅是一個好的傾聽者，又如此體貼，又願意花時間尋找能讓你開心的東西。

6. He introduces you to his family.

6. 介紹家人。

You can bet that as soon as he introduces a girlfriend to his mother, she'll be on his case about grandchildren. So if he's getting the two of you together, he knows what he's getting himself into and that there might be a future with you.

只要他把你介紹給他的媽媽，那他媽媽一定會督促你關於孫子的事。所以，如果他介紹你們認識，他明白自己會面對什麼問題。那他肯定是想和你一起創造未來。

7. He makes you part of his inner circle.

7. 融入他的生活圈。

Folding you into his circle is more than just introducing you to his friends. A man who's gaga over you and can see a future will make an effort to make you part of his life. If he's scheduling standing double dates with his coupled friends and inviting you to his weekly drinking night with his friends, he wants you to stick around for a while.

讓你融入到他的圈子裏，不僅是把你介紹給朋友。一個能和你看見未來、爲你癡迷的男人，定會努力讓你成爲他生活的一部分。若他想要邀請你和他的朋友進行四人約會，或是參加每週和朋友的喝酒小聚，表明他希望有你在身邊。

8. He makes himself a part of your life.

8. 融入你的生活圈。

If he's joining you for your boring Sunday morning errands and cuddling up on the couch with you with your and your roomies for Gossip Girl every week, he's in it for the long haul.

如果他自願加入你每週日的例行瑣事，或是每週縮在沙發上陪你，聽你和室友聊八卦，說明他真的想和你一直走下去。

9. He compromises.

9. 願做讓步。

It's simple: when he loves you, he wants to keep you happy. This doesn't mean always letting you get your way, but it does mean he'll be eager to reach a middle ground with you where you're both happy. Whether it's where you spend the holidays or who gets the remote, he'll show his love by insisting that you call the shots sometimes. How To Be Romantic

一個很簡單的道理，他愛你，就會讓你快樂。但這並不意味着他會一直慣着你。但他肯定會努力找到一個方法，讓雙方都滿意，不論是在哪度假或誰掌控遙控器。有時，他會讓你做決定，來向你表明他的愛。

10. He tells you.

10. 向你傾訴。

Sure, there's a lot to be said for showing, not telling— but if he's telling you how crazy he is about you, listen up!

的確，傾訴這一點沒有太多可說。但是，如果他向你表達愛意，一定要仔細聽哦！