積極樂觀的人不會做的14件事(1)
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1. They Don’t Assume the Worst
不總往壞處想
It’s amazing how many problems wouldn’t exist if we didn’t invent them. Positive people know that leaping to conclusions is usually a bad idea. Instead of freaking out about an unanswered text (“What if they don’t like me?”), they go on with their day (“hmm, they must be busy!”). Before they decide another person is untrustworthy, they make an honest effort to find out more about them.
如果我們不去亂想，其實很多問題根本就不存在，懂不懂？積極的人知道太在意結局不是個好辦法。與其花時間去亂想那些沒有答案的東西（如果他們不喜歡我怎麼辦？），不如就去認爲他們也有自己的生活（恩，他們實在太忙！）。在決定判定一個人靠不住之前，他們會積極地去了解更多。
2. They Don’t Resist the Truth
不抗拒事實
It’s easy to live in a lie because lies can grow so strong that it can eventually make people forget about the truth. Positive people know that they need to face the truth and live with it because making excuses will never get a solution for what have gone wrong.
活在謊言之中非常簡單，因爲謊言會慢慢變大以致讓你忽視真理的存在。積極的人知道他們需要去面對事實，接受事實。一味的找理由永遠不會爲那些難題找到解決方法。
3. They Don’t Hold On To Resentment
不怨恨
Positive people understand that resentment only causes pain in life over and over again, so they let go of it. They choose to accept and forgive things happened in the past to move on with what they have learned from the incidents.
積極的人明白怨恨只會給生活增加層層傷痛，不如索性放下。他們選擇去接受原諒過去那些事情，帶着經驗教訓繼續朝前走。
4. They Don’t Forget the Little Things
事無小事
Is it easy to forget the little things? Certainly. But positive people don’t make a habit of it. Instead, they express gratitude for every blessing, no matter how big or small. They know it’s silly to think more stuff will make them feel better if they can’t be happy about what they have.
小事是不是特別容易忘記？當然。但積極的人不會讓自己有這樣的壞習慣，他們會感激任何一件事，不論大小。他們知道正是現在所擁有的一切才讓他們感到如此幸福快樂。
5. They Don’t Pass the Buck
不推卸責任
Positive people realize they are the CEO of their life and thus take full responsibility for how things are. They didn’t get “stuck in traffic” — they were late. They didn’t “have something come up” — they forgot. Positive people don’t claim “they can’t help it,” because they can do anything they set their mind to.
積極的人把自己看成人生的主宰者，對所有的事情負全責。他們不會在人生”堵車“而遲到。也不會因爲忘記而“遇到突發情況”。積極的人不會說“他們無能爲力”，因爲只要他們想，就一定可以做到。
6. They Don’t See Problems as “Problems”
不把困難當“困難”
對積極的人來說，“困難”是一種“挑戰”。他們相信每個困難都暗含被髮掘的機遇。積極的人抓住機會去不斷挑戰自己提高生活。
7. They Don’t Resign Themselves to “Reality.”
不向現實屈服
大部分人說到"現實”都覺得是一個夢想滅絕的恐怖地獄。積極的人知道只要堅持和奮鬥，一切皆有可能，所以他們選擇書寫自己的現實。
不總往壞處想
It’s amazing how many problems wouldn’t exist if we didn’t invent them. Positive people know that leaping to conclusions is usually a bad idea. Instead of freaking out about an unanswered text (“What if they don’t like me?”), they go on with their day (“hmm, they must be busy!”). Before they decide another person is untrustworthy, they make an honest effort to find out more about them.
如果我們不去亂想，其實很多問題根本就不存在，懂不懂？積極的人知道太在意結局不是個好辦法。與其花時間去亂想那些沒有答案的東西（如果他們不喜歡我怎麼辦？），不如就去認爲他們也有自己的生活（恩，他們實在太忙！）。在決定判定一個人靠不住之前，他們會積極地去了解更多。
2. They Don’t Resist the Truth
不抗拒事實
It’s easy to live in a lie because lies can grow so strong that it can eventually make people forget about the truth. Positive people know that they need to face the truth and live with it because making excuses will never get a solution for what have gone wrong.
活在謊言之中非常簡單，因爲謊言會慢慢變大以致讓你忽視真理的存在。積極的人知道他們需要去面對事實，接受事實。一味的找理由永遠不會爲那些難題找到解決方法。
3. They Don’t Hold On To Resentment
不怨恨
Positive people understand that resentment only causes pain in life over and over again, so they let go of it. They choose to accept and forgive things happened in the past to move on with what they have learned from the incidents.
積極的人明白怨恨只會給生活增加層層傷痛，不如索性放下。他們選擇去接受原諒過去那些事情，帶着經驗教訓繼續朝前走。
4. They Don’t Forget the Little Things
事無小事
Is it easy to forget the little things? Certainly. But positive people don’t make a habit of it. Instead, they express gratitude for every blessing, no matter how big or small. They know it’s silly to think more stuff will make them feel better if they can’t be happy about what they have.
小事是不是特別容易忘記？當然。但積極的人不會讓自己有這樣的壞習慣，他們會感激任何一件事，不論大小。他們知道正是現在所擁有的一切才讓他們感到如此幸福快樂。
5. They Don’t Pass the Buck
不推卸責任
Positive people realize they are the CEO of their life and thus take full responsibility for how things are. They didn’t get “stuck in traffic” — they were late. They didn’t “have something come up” — they forgot. Positive people don’t claim “they can’t help it,” because they can do anything they set their mind to.
積極的人把自己看成人生的主宰者，對所有的事情負全責。他們不會在人生”堵車“而遲到。也不會因爲忘記而“遇到突發情況”。積極的人不會說“他們無能爲力”，因爲只要他們想，就一定可以做到。
6. They Don’t See Problems as “Problems”
不把困難當“困難”
對積極的人來說，“困難”是一種“挑戰”。他們相信每個困難都暗含被髮掘的機遇。積極的人抓住機會去不斷挑戰自己提高生活。
7. They Don’t Resign Themselves to “Reality.”
不向現實屈服
大部分人說到"現實”都覺得是一個夢想滅絕的恐怖地獄。積極的人知道只要堅持和奮鬥，一切皆有可能，所以他們選擇書寫自己的現實。
