享受單身的3種有趣方式

1. enjoy quiet and freedom

1.享受安靜和自由

Just think. No more arguments and compromising. No more worries about your boyfriend. You’re absolutely free and you should definitely enjoy your freedom. While relationships are fun, everything happens for a reason and if you’re single now there may be an important reason for it. Don’t stress over your single life and don’t try desperately to find a new boyfriend. Enjoy your freedom and the things you like most.

簡單想一下。沒有爭吵和妥協。不用再擔心你的男友。你是絕對自由的，你當然應該享受你的自由。儘管談戀愛很有趣，任何事情的發生都是有原因的，如果你現在是單身，或許有重要的原因。不要強調你的單身生活，不要費盡心思去找一個新的哪有。享受你的自由以及那些你最喜歡的東西。

2. Pursue new hobbies

2.追求新的愛好

If your ex didn’t like your hobbies and interests, and you couldn’t indulge in your favorite hobby because he often laughed at you, now it’s the perfect time to do that. I’m keen on painting and I really love it, but once my ex crushed my motivation and inspiration to paint because he thought painting was a strange hobby.

如果你的前男友不喜歡你的愛好和興趣，因爲他經常嘲笑你，你不能沉浸在自己喜歡的愛好之中，現在就是享受自己愛好的最好時間。我喜歡畫畫，我真的喜歡，但是之前我的前男友毀掉了我繪畫激情和興趣，因爲他認爲繪畫是一種奇怪的愛好。

I made a huge mistake when I stopped pursuing my hobby for the sake of my ex and I’m happy that I didn’t marry him. My current boyfriend loves all my paintings and we even paint together when he has free time. Never stop pursuing your favorite hobbies and developing new ones. Just because your boyfriend doesn’t like what you do, doesn’t mean you should stop doing it. Don’t let anyone control your life.

當我爲了我的前男友放棄追求自己的愛好的時候，我發現自己犯了很大的錯誤，我很慶幸我沒有嫁給他。我現在的男友喜歡我所有的繪畫作品，我們甚至在他有空的時候一起繪畫。永遠不要停止追求自己的興趣愛好，以及培養新的興趣愛好。僅僅因爲你的男朋友不喜歡你的愛好，你也不應該放棄自己所做的事情。不要讓任何人控制你的人生。

3. Focus on your friends

3.集中注意力在你的朋友身上

Another great and fun way to enjoy your single life is to spend more time with your friends. When you are in a relationship, it’s difficult to find more time for your friends.

享受單身生活的另一個很棒有趣的方面就是花更多的時間和你的朋友相處。當你在戀愛的時候，很難抽出更多的時間與朋友相處。

Now you are single, so make sure you have a lot of fun together. Reconnect with your old friends or make new friends, if you don’t have any. My close friend didn’t have friends because her ex-boyfriend didn’t allow her to meet her friends. I couldn’t even call her and talk to her. Now that she finally and luckily broke up with him, I’m happy that we can spend some time together and have a lot of fun. But I think she is happier than me, guess why?

現在你是單身，所以要確保你和朋友有更多的樂趣。重新聯繫你的老友,如果你沒有朋友的話，可以去結識新的朋友。我很親近的一個朋友之前沒有任何朋友，因爲她的前男友不允許她去見朋友。我甚至不能給她打電話，不能和她說話。現在她終於和前男友分手了，真是慶幸，我們現在可以花更多的時間在一起，非常開心。但是我認爲她比我更開心，猜猜爲什麼？