關注社會:寶典:80後想結婚必先做到這10條
結婚是男女關係的最高形式。一般地說，男女之間的愛情都渴望雙方肉體的擁有，愛慾的無限讓人們很難滿足於一時的苟合，那種“只在乎曾經擁有，不在乎天長地久。”的愛情對於兩個未婚男女來說是不存在的，愛情的力量、人性的自私、感情的排他，都要求相愛的男女要從身體到心智的長久擁有，他們更渴望的是天長地久，這個時候，結婚就成了擁有心儀之人的最佳實現方式。那麼，什麼時候該結婚了？先來看看這十條吧！
第一、你們彼此都是對方最好的朋友,不帶任何條件的,喜歡與對方在一起。
You are undoubtedly the best friends of each other, an d you like to stay together.
第二、彼此很容易溝通,互相可以很敞開地坦白任何事情,而不必擔心被對方懷疑或輕視。
It's easy for you two to communicate, because you don't have to worry about any doubts.
第三、兩個人在心靈上有共同的價值觀和理念,並且對這些觀念有清楚的認只與追求。
You two have similar life views and have a clear understanding to it.
第四 你們都認爲婚姻是一輩子的事情.而且雙方(特別強調"雙方")都堅定地願意委身在這個長期的婚姻關係中。
You believe that marriage is a lifetime thing. But the two sides (with special emphasis on "both sides") are willing to commit themselves firmly in the long-term marital relationships.
第五、當發生衝突或爭執的時候可以一起來解決.而不是等以後纔來發作。
When a conflict or dispute occurred, you should work together to solveit rather than wait.
第六、相處可以彼此逗趣.常有歡笑.在生活中許多方面都會以幽默相待。
You can get along with each other funny, with laughter. In many ways, life would be a humorous treatment.
第七、彼此非常瞭解,並且接納對方,你知道對方瞭解你的優點和缺點,仍然確信你是被他所接納的。
You are very familiar with each other and accept each other, and you know each other's strengths and weaknesses and accept all those.
第八、從認識你,也是你所最信任的人當中,得到支持和肯定。
Get support and recognition from your most trusted person.
第九、有時你們會有浪漫的感情,但絕大多數的時候,你們的相處是非常滿足而且自在的。
Sometimes you have romantic feelings, but the vast majority of the time, you get along with each other freely.
第十、你們有一個非常理性、成熟的交往。你們雙方都感受到，在許多不同的層面上，你們是很相配的。
You have a very rational and mature contact. You both feel that, in many different levels, you very match.
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