時尚雙語:男人都知道不忠是錯誤的

“When men cheat, it basically means that they are looking for something their girlfriend or wife is not providing. Often times, it comes down to sex.” Well, partially true but there must be more to it than that. “…ting is disrespectful towards the person you’ve cheated on, but at the very least, it has two beneficial aspects to it.

First, that you’ll realize your mistake and appreciate your lover a lot more after the horrible deed. The second is that cheating can help you realize your misery within your current relationship, and will likely give you that necessary shove to move on and stop wasting both your lover’s and your own time.”

So why do some men cheat in relationships? Almost all men know that cheating is wrong, yet many they still do it. Men will blame their reasons for cheating on their genes and their necessity to reproduce. However, aren’t we suppose to be further evolved than a chimp? Shouldn’t we be able to control our bodies through our minds and conscious decisions? Apparently not always.

Women do have great understanding about men. But there is a part of men that they do not completely understand. Why in the world would he cheat on me, this seems to be a question that crosses the minds of women who are cheated on.

Possibly the area of the problem could be commitment. Even being married, some men will not fully commit themselves to the spouse. Not only in outward areas of his life but mostly inside. So not being truthful in a sense it will cause men to stray to look for a more comfortable relationship.

Being unsatisfied and feeling less stimulated by the current relationship is sometimes a problem. A crisis of bringing back the old days could pin point this problem. Wanting to feel younger and forget the daily grind brings upon him pressure and causes men to cheat.

Some men cheat because they are too afraid to give up their current relationship because of financial reasons. They would rather cheat and have the new relationship also, rather than loose out on their financial status in life. Knowing that divorce could lead to dividing everything and stripping the budget, they would rather take the chance cheating.

Some also like the excitement of having a secret affair, which is way out of line. These kind of games can be costly to the cheating spouse,but the rush that they get from this is worth the risk for some. They continue to cheat on their wife or girlfriend, because they are sure they can get away with it.

There are other reasons why men cheat is because they do not take their marriage or relationship serious. This could be that they feel like their spouse or girlfriend, is not smart enough to figure them out.

Most men cheat because of a bored relationship,and most men are single minded and do not realize the consequences of their actions.

“當男人欺騙時，基本上意味着他們在尋找一些女朋友或妻子不贊同的東西。經常是與性有關的。”這裏部分是正確的，但還有更多原因。“......欺騙是對對方的不尊重，但至少它也有兩方面的好處。

首先，你會意識到你的錯誤，在那些行爲發生後更加感激你的愛人。第二，欺騙會幫助你在現有的關係中意識到你的痛苦，很有可能讓你放棄，繼續前進，不浪費你和你愛人的時間。”

爲什麼一些男人要欺騙感情？幾乎所有的男人都知道欺騙是錯誤的，然而他們很多人還是那樣做。男人會將欺騙責怪於他們的基因和生理需求。然而，我們不應該比黑猩猩更高級嗎？難道我們不能通過自己的思想和意識來控制身體嗎？很顯然，並不總是那樣的。

女人確實很瞭解男人。但有一部分男人她們不能完全理解爲什麼他會對我不忠，這個似乎是被欺騙了的女人心中的疑惑。

這個問題或許跟承諾有關。即使結婚了，一些男人也不會對另一半完全信守承諾。並不只是在外表，還有內心。因此，不能太真實，它會讓男人迷茫而尋找更舒適的關係。

對現在的關係覺得不滿足，缺乏刺激感，有時是個問題。在這個緊要關頭，讓人感覺回到過去可以解決這個問題。想要變得更年輕，忘記日常工作帶給他的壓力導致他開始欺騙。一些男人欺騙是因爲他們很害怕因爲財政問題而放棄現在的關係。他們寧願欺騙，開始另一段新感情，也不要讓人知道他們的財政狀況。知道離婚可以掩蓋任何事情，也不用預算，他們寧願欺騙。

一些男人對婚外戀很興奮。這樣的遊戲要付出很多，但從中獲得的東西使得他們願意冒險。他們繼續欺騙妻子或女朋友，是因爲他們很肯定能解決這些問題。

還有其他原因，他們並不把婚姻或關係當成一回事。這可能是因爲他們覺得自己的妻子或女朋友不夠聰明，沒能看懂他們。

大多數男人背叛是因爲厭煩了這個關係，他們一意孤行，沒有意識到他們這些行動的結果。