男人具備七點要素才能使自己那個她幸福

Being a guy, I've always been sort of intimidated whenever I've heard people say "you don't know what women want", "no one knows what women want", "understanding women is like rocket science" and so on and so forth. I've always hated the generalization that women are hard to understand, women are just as easy to understand as men. It isn't justified to just label a gender as "hard to understand" just because a few people of the opposite gender find them hard to understand or just because they can't comprehend them. So, for the normal and unbiased people out there, I'm writing about seven things every guy can do to make his woman happy and content.

作爲一個男人,當我聽到人們說"你不知道女人想要什麼","沒有人知道女人想要什麼","理解女人就像火箭科學"等時，我就會有點害怕。我一直很討厭這種普遍化，比如理解女人很難，女人跟男人一樣很好理解。將不合理的標籤"難以理解"來形容一種性別的人，僅僅是因爲相反性別的個別人發現他們很難理解，或者僅僅是他們不能理解相反性別的人，這是不公平的。因此,對於普通人和公正之人,我列出了每個男人都能做到的讓他的女人快樂和滿足的7點要素。

Let's begin:

讓我們開始吧：

1. Loyalty

1.忠誠

Loyalty is one of the first traits that keep a relationship alive and strong.

忠誠是第一個能保持感情新鮮和強烈的特性。

2. Honesty

2.誠實

Being honest is one of the easiest ways to a woman's heart. Men, even if you make a mistake, just be honest about it. It's always better to be open and honest about your past and your own individuality. Be honest, it doesn't cost anything and it has a lot of rewards.

誠實是得到女人芳心的最簡單辦法之一。男人們，即使你們犯了錯，只要老實交代即可。對於你的過去和自己的個性，誠實表現出來是很好的辦法。誠實，無需任何成本卻回報很大。

3. Time

3.時間

I've said this countless times, "time" is one of the most precious gifts you can give someone. Regardless of how busy your life is, always take proper time out for your woman.

我已經說了很多次，時間是你能給予某人的最好的禮物。不管你的生活有多麼繁忙，要經常抽出一定的時間來陪你的愛人。

4. Understanding

4.理解

After having a lot of arguments with my girlfriend, I finally realized where I was going wrong. Now I finally actually know what she means and when she needs me. True understanding takes a lot of time to achieve but it's well worth the effort.

經過跟我女友多次爭吵以後，我最終意識到我哪裏錯了。現在我才真正體會到當她需要我時是什麼意思。

5. Be emotional

5.適當的情緒化

Women love it when their men show emotions and show them their kinder and softer sides. Be vulnerable in front of your women, you won't be judged, you'll only be loved.

女人很喜歡她的男人在自己面前流露出各種情緒，並表現出他們的溫柔的一面。在你的女人面前表現出脆弱的一面，你並不會被否定，只會被深愛。

6. Be their strength

6.做她們的後盾

A man needs to protect his woman, mentally and physically. Be their strength when they're down, be their strength in their ups and downs.

一個男的要去保護自己的女人，不管是精神上還是身體上。當她們情緒低落時，做她們的後盾，當她們人生有起伏時，做她們的後盾。

7. Security

7.安全感

The last thing in the list in what women want is "Security". I don't mean that in the literal sense. A man should be secure in his ways, in his future plans and in his financial plans. So men, decide on who you want to be and where you want to be in life. Don't be indecisive.

最後一點我要說的是女人要的是"安全感"。我並不是指字面意思。一個男人應該在他自己走的路，他未來的計劃，他的經濟計劃當中表現出安全感。所以，男士們，要決定自己要成爲什麼樣的人，並決定自己人生道路的前進方向。不要優柔寡斷。