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Become The Best Version Of you./p>做最好的自己

Somewhere in your mind, you can see the perfect you. But you're not so foolish as to think that you or anybody else can ever be perfect. The people who matter in your life are attracted to your rough edges. Edges that give you character.

有時候，你能看到完美的自己是什麼樣子。但是你並沒有蠢到認爲有人可以達到完美狀態。對你很重要的那個他是被你的缺點所吸引的，因爲缺點也彰顯了你的性格。

But there's a difference between an endearing trait that's unique to you and a trait that others find obnoxious or repulsive. It could be that you're already as good as you can be. But then why would you be reading this article? Deep down, you know there are things about you that you don't want to do.

但是你要搞清楚，你所以爲的獨特的可愛品質與他人所以爲的令人厭惡或討厭的品質是不是一回事？對，你可能已經很好了。但你爲何要看這篇文章？因爲你非常清楚，你其實很想改掉某些品質。

But just remember, there are certain things about you that you'll never change. It's up to you to make peace with them, and learn how to manage them in a healthy way.

但也要記住：有些事情你是永遠都不會改的。所以讓這些品質和平共處、學會管控這些品質纔是你應做的事。

Understand How Men Really Think

理解男人的想法

There is so much misinformation online about how men think, and what we want. I don't really blame the people who spread these mistruths. Often, men will not be totally honest about what they want because they're afraid of being judged. This is made more difficult because what a man wants can vary widely between guys.

網上有很多關於男人如何思考、想要什麼的虛假誘導信息。我不怪散播這些謠言的人們。通常，男人不會完全坦誠自己想要什麼，因爲他們怕被別人說三道四。因此，理解男人的想法就更爲困難，因爲不同的男人想要的東西也不盡相同。

But it's not that difficult to understand some of the basics that apply to all men: We hate drama and women who manufacture it because they are bored in their lives. We love having sex with a woman who accepts us for who we are and is genuinely turned on by us. We need our own space and time away from you to be with our friends or just to do some things without you.

但理解一些適用於男性的基本原則還是很容易的。我們不喜歡鬧劇，也不喜歡鬧事的女人，因爲這樣的女人實在是太無聊了，纔會整天作來作去。我們喜歡和接受我們的本真，對我們感興趣的女人發生關係。我們需要私人空間，需要和朋友呆在一起，或者做一些沒有你參與的事情。

We prefer to take the lead in the relationship, but understand that there are times for you to take charge. We want you to be confident as you. There is nothing sexier than a woman who behaves confidently in her life.

我們更喜歡主導這段感情，但請理解：有時候，你也要主動一些。我們希望你自信，因爲自信的女人最性感。

This is not too hard to understand, right?

這並不難理解，對吧？

The other important point here is that men are how they are. We can't change ourselves to suit you, and the foolish men who do try that end up miserable and single.

還有一點，男人就是這樣。我們不會改變自己來迎合你，只有愚蠢的男人才會那樣做，而且到最後，他會是個痛苦的單身狗。